A Sermon for the Week
October 13, 2019
Years ago my grandma, Dad’s Mom gave me a paper lunch sack, you know the ones, and it had one hundred pennies in it for my birthday. I walked the half mile to the drugstore in town and bought one hundred pieces of Double Bubble, bubble gum. Then I almost choked myself trying to put it all in my mouth at one time. I think about fifteen was the max I could get in and still be able to breathe. I was trying to chew it all before I got home because I knew my big sisters would want me to share and I wasn’t into sharing in those days.
But, when I think back to the joy my Grandma’s present gave me, I don’t think I ever thanked her for it. Yeah, I know, I’m a grandpa now and the joy my grandkids have in the things I give them is enough of a thank you. But, we all know we should give a heartfelt thank you for what others do for us. And, I feel a little guilty for never thanking Grandma for her wonderful present that gave me so much joy.
We all want our children and grandchildren and ourselves to have this deep feeling of appreciation inside, not out of duty, not out of politeness, and not because we are being proper. Instead, we want them to know the deep felt appreciation for the little and for the big things of life. We want them to know how important it is to be thankful. We want a miracle to occur in ourselves, our children, and grandchildren, the miracle of deep and genuine thanksgiving.
So, that day, Jesus asked, “Where are the other nine?” He asked, “Did I not heal ten lepers? Where are the other nine? Did only one come back to say, ‘Thank you”?
But, first what about these men with leprosy? It was the dreaded disease of Jesus’ day, just as cancer and coronaries are the dreaded diseases now. None of us want to hear the “C” word from our doctor. That’s the way it was in Jesus’ day about leprosy. Leprosy was highly contagious and almost every skin disease was diagnosed as Leprosy. If it was mild, they had blotches on the skin and it became serious when body parts began to fall off. I think a lot of the fear of the disease was because of how the disease was treated. For, there was no medical treatment. Leprosy was treated by quarantining you until you, either healed or you died. You were separated from everything and you lived in a leper colony. No one who was healthy were supposed to come within twelve feet of you, you were untouchable.
In the story for today, a group of ten lepers were together outside of Jerusalem. Three days before, Jesus had healed a leper and word had spread and they were hoping Jesus might come by and heal them. When Jesus came by, the lepers shouted at him, “Have mercy on us. Help us.” All Jesus did that day was tell them to go to their priests and get a certificate of health that they had been cured.
As they went to the priests, the lepers noticed their sores beginning to go away, they truly were being healed. I’m sure they did a little victory dance right there in the street. They could now go home and resume a normal life, think of the joy in that for them. Off they ran as fast as they could to see the priest and, then to go and see their family that they probably hadn’t seen since they were diagnosed. Off they ran to see their kids and their farm, their fishing boat, their store, their garden, their oxen; all the things they hadn’t seen or touched for so long. They were so happy to be well and they had missed so much.
Only one of the ten, remembered the source of his healing, only one, came back and fell at Jesus’ feet, worshipping him, and thanking him. Jesus asked him, “Where are the other nine? Were not ten healed? Only you, a Samaritan, a foreigner, are you the only one to have returned to say thank you. Go in peace. Your faith has made you well.” So, where were the other nine?
I wonder is healing our human hearts of ingratitude a greater miracle than healing a terrible disease? Where were the other nine? Why didn’t they come back and thank, Jesus? And, how on earth, do we or can we heal ingratitude? Let’s look at these lepers for some answers.
Those nine guys are the ones I’ve circled here in the Power Point running away to go home. These guys were very worshipful and oh, so holy when they needed God. They were shouting, “Heal us, Lord; we need you. Heal us and we’ll do anything you want.” But after they were healed, they felt no need to thank the Lord. We see it all the time don’t we? In fact most of us have been guilty of the same sin, I know I have. Crying out during the pain of divorce, or cancer, begging for help during heart attacks and bankruptcy, “I need you Lord. I can’t go on without you.” But, when our troubles are over, when our lives get back to normal, we sometimes forget all about our relationship with and our need for God. We cry out to God in crisis, when we need him. But, when the trouble is over, we often forget all about, the source of our healing and any thankfulness.
Isn’t it sad, that nine of the lepers ended up further from God after their healing? When they needed God, they wanted a relationship with God; but when the need was gone, they were off busy doing…well, you know…life. Isn’t it sad that their healing drove these men even further from God?
The nine were so busy being well they forgot about God. It’s understandable. They had been separated from their family and friends and now they were free to go back to their lives. They were sooo busy, being well, so busy rushing to see everyone and do all the things they hadn’t gotten to do while they were sick that they didn’t have time for thankfulness and worship. They were so busy running to see the garden and the wife and kids, the shop and the fishing boat, and all those people and places they hadn’t seen for so long. They were so busy being well, that they no longer had time to feel thanksgiving to God or even to stop for a quick, “Thank you.” We all should understand this one…for all of us are sometimes are too busy living our lives to feel gratitude towards God. We hit the floor in the morning running and we fall asleep, exhausted at night, often without a prayer all day except maybe for a quickie prayer at one of the meals meal each day. We are even too busy having fun, seeing family, and a million other things to go to church even once a week, to worship the God who gives us all that is good in our lives. Words of gratitude, feelings of gratitude, not so much? Maybe in our mind we say, “Sorry Lord, I’m too busy being well and living life to worship and thank you.”
It is a tragedy when those nine lepers were healed, they did not meet the healer, Jesus Christ. They were given a miracle of healing but left not knowing the miracle worker. They received the gift, but didn’t know and love the giver. It reminds me of myself, so busy spending my hundred pennies and chewing Double Bubble Gum that I forgot all about Grandma, who was the source of my joy. All I could think about was not having to share it all with my sisters. We, can all become so busy playing with our hundred pennies of life that we forget the God who is the source of all that is good in our lives and none of the bad.
The real tragedy of the nine was they missed the true blessing. Yes, they got the miracle but they didn’t discover the miracle worker who blessed them. They didn’t come to faith in Jesus Christ and I hope they did later.
Then let’s look at the Samaritan, the one who came back. The Samaritan, a foreigner, an outsider. The one who came back with a heart of gratitude was not a Jew; he was not part of their religion; he was an outsider. There are several times in the Gospels where it is the foreigner, the outsider, who has great faith or great thanksgiving. I wonder, “Why?” Is it a promise, a reminder that we gentiles too, may come to the Christ for salvation and hope.
Many of us are blessed by living in a very good marriage. I am so blessed with a wife who not only puts up with all my craziness, but she even thinks some of it is cute. When we are living in a good marriage, over time, we can begin to take the goodness of it for granted. When our spouse does all these nice little things for us, we sometimes stop noticing. Some of us become used to these things. We start to expect it from our spouse. Some of us lose the genuine appreciation for the other’s goodness, for some marriages can become routine, a habit, a marriage where we come to expect the gifts we are given.
It is often like that with kids who live in a good home with a loving mom and dad. The kids can easily begin to take the blessings of their family life for granted. It becomes no big deal that their parents do all of these wonderful things for them. Many can come to expect it with no thankfulness.
It’s the same way sometimes, in our faith walk, we can become so used to God blessings. We may begin to take God for granted. Coming to expect his blessings as our God-given right. Unlike someone who is new to faith in Christ as they are often deeply grateful to God for the smallest of gifts, for the smallest of blessings. When we become used to being with someone, we can sometimes start to take them for granted, and that is what we often do with our Lord God. We need to guard against that, through regular worship, lots of prayers, and with the giving of our time and treasure.
We often begin to take God’s blessings for granted. So it is not a surprise that it was a foreigner, a Samaritan, who was the only one who remembered and came back to Jesus to say thank you. The other nine may have just expected God’s blessings as their rightful reward. Just as we sometimes start to do when life is going well and we forget all about the one who is the source of all that is good in our lives.
Here is another thing about the one who came back to say, “Thank you.” I think he had a heart full of thanksgiving even though he had leprosy. He may not have been whining to himself, “O God, why did you let my life become so miserable with this leprosy? Why did you take everything from me? What kind of a god are you, to let me get leprosy?” Rather than feeling that way, I think the Samaritan may have been thankful to God right there, in the middle of his suffering. He may have thought, “O God, life is miserable. This leprosy is awful. I wish I didn’t have it. But thank you for being with me through it, thank you for giving me strength to handle this awful time, and thank you for taking care of my family.” People can have such grateful attitudes in the middle of suffering. We’ve all known people exactly like this grateful Samaritan…people who found blessings in their life, even in the middle of terrible illness and pain.
It is a fact, that the greatest miracle is not being healed of leprosy or cancer or heart attacks; the greatest miracle is when our human heart is healed of our ingratitude. The greatest victory is when our human hearts are filled with daily thanksgiving. Filled with thanksgiving to God and to all the others who touch our lives with blessings. Filled with thanksgiving for God’s countless gifts of love. Please, I pray Lord; heal our hearts of our ingratitude.
Rev Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
UMC - Healy, Kansas
“Everyone Gets a Trophy”
October 6, 2019
Now, before I begin, I just want to ask you younger folks to not throw anything at me or leave until I have finished, DEAL?
We hear it all the time on the news that the young people of our world are going to let everything go to pot. People say it is because of growing up in the “everyone gets a trophy” times, so they think they are all entitled to be given everything. Some folk worry the education system worries so much about children’s self-esteem and pass children on to the next grade whether they can do the work or not. On the news some of the younger generation are protesting for someone else to pay their college loans. They think everything should be free, while not seeming to realize nothing in this world is free. Some say they believe they should be given a well-paying job even though their degree has trained them to do nothing useful. We see some of them on the news, with masks on, ganging up on and assaulting those they disagree with. Well, they say they disagree with them, but I’m not sure how they would know, they won’t let them speak. Our military is having a difficult time recruiting people to defend our country and many think young people think their time and lives are more important than our country. Some younger people say, following Jesus Christ and giving time and treasure to a church is ridiculous. As parents we love our kids and we have done our fair share of coddling our kids, but maybe we too are a little worried about how our kids will work out in a world that seldom coddles anyone or anything. That’s what we are being told about younger folks, but hold on a minute and let’s think about this.
But, let’s look at our scripture lesson today and see if it will help us look at this situation a little differently, when we look at what the disciples are asking for from Jesus, their request seems reasonable to me. The apostles asked the Lord, 'Increase our faith!' We know, Jesus has been pushing them pretty hard in the last few chapters. Ever since the end of chapter nine, when Jesus turned towards Jerusalem, leading them straight into the hands of those who will kill him. He commissioned 70 disciples, argued with a lawyer who wanted to know who his neighbor really was; and he taught the disciples to pray. He has tough words for the Pharisees and scribes, for the rich, for those who have power, but then he tells them not to be afraid and not to worry. Chapter 16 contains two parables that both begin with, "There was a rich man…" We just can't serve God and wealth, Jesus reminds us time after time. He reminds if we love anything, including our stuff and our money more than the Lord and other people, we are in trouble. For, when we get to heaven through our faith in Jesus Christ, a Christian is a Christian with no special privileges for the especially gifted in skills or money.
Jesus tells the disciples in our passage today that life is going to get difficult for them and tells them to do their best. That it would be better for a big stone to be hung around their neck and they be dropped in the sea than for them to stumble. He also tells them that if someone sins against you, no matter what they do, they must forgive.
So, I understand their worry and I say, “No wonder the disciples ask for their faith to be increased”. They are exhausted and it seems following Jesus is getting more difficult every day! It makes me tired and scared just reading all the disciples have been through in these chapters. Jesus’ words remind us following him is challenging and it can be painful. Yes, I know, we aren't supposed to get into Christianity entirely for the rewards; but I think many of us secretly, deep down in our hearts, kind of hope for some reward…we want just some little thing.
It doesn’t seem like the disciples are asking for too much. Go back and read these chapters this afternoon, just read from chapter ten on. It feels like to me they are only asking for Jesus to help them keep on, keeping on. Asking Jesus, to just give them more faith to do their work better. He tells them to be on guard, he talks about forgiveness and they want to follow him, they really do. But, they are telling him, we need you to help us out here, fill us with great faith and love so we can actually do what you’re calling us to do.
Jesus’ reply seems painful at first, but it isn't quite as bad as it sounds. I wonder is Jesus telling them the faith they have is enough? Telling them they already have enough faith, they just need to use it, when he talks about moving the mountain and the fig tree with faith. He’s telling them they do not need to have more faith. What they need to do is just trust in the power of the faith they already have.
Now, that doesn't mean they get to take the day off. It seems as if just a moment ago Jesus was turning the social order upside down, but now He is keeping it in place to make a point. When he says to them, "The slave owner wouldn't invite his slave right in and have him sit down, at the table, would they?" He asks them, “Is the slave owner really going to thank a slave for doing exactly what he was supposed to do?” So, when you have used the great faith that you already have to work for God, you can be satisfied. You won't ask for a meaningless trophy, you won't ask if you are feeling fulfilled. You will sit down, wipe the sweat off your forehead, and be thankful to God that you have done exactly what you have been called to do. I wonder is that what he’s telling them and you and Me?
I often feel we have thoroughly domesticated discipleship, making is seem way too easy to follow Jesus Christ in this life. For many of is being a good church person too often means you come to worship enough…I guess each of us decide how much “enough” is. There are many different theories on that, but I believe we should all be in church, somewhere, every Sunday. Many of us serve on committees when it's our turn and do the best we can asking good questions. When we are younger we teach children in church, maybe our own, but we think we are retired from that even though there are children’s classes that need a teacher. Then, when we have finished our stint, we feel that if we're lucky, we might be recognized when the church sends us a thank you letter or give us a pin. We tell ourselves, “Why last year, I invited a neighbor to church and thank the Lord, they didn’t make fun of me, so I’ve done that witnessing thing this decade.” And, we are sure glad we checked that off our list of things we are supposed to do each decade, without too much embarrassment.
But, in truth, we all know this life of faith is not supposed to be such an easy ride, so we find ways to avoid it, we work pretty hard to avoid most of the things we should be doing. But, look at it this way, maybe the reason, we don’t feel as much reward for servant leadership from the church…is because doing it, is and should be its own reward. Maybe, many of us haven’t touched servant leadership in so long we can’t tell you when we did. But, it is one of the ways we fulfill our calling, the way we become the human beings God created us to be. Doing our duty for God by serving where ever we’re needed without looking for a reward or thinking someone else should be doing it. Doing service for God is and should be, its own reward. I sure wish more of us would try it and see.
So, back to the beginning, while the Christian church wonders how do we communicate with the younger generation, how do we work with them, how will the world and the church get along in their hands. One thing we should probably tell the young people and ourselves, is to watch less television. We should tell people to place more importance on our human relationships than on our digital ones. That we all should guard against depression and isolation caused by all of our electronic devices and the best thing any of us can do, to do that, is to get outside of ourselves and help others. We each need to realize that putting ourselves above all else is a dead end path in life and that dead end becomes a cliff when it gets to eternity. Service to others and leaving a lasting legacy is a deep human need and it is its own reward. Strong human relationships in the church keep us true to who we are and help us to realize what our lives are meant to me.
We all need to remember being true to who we are and finding meaning for ourselves should not be our total life goal. I’m sorry, but life is not all about us. If we come to realize the amazing power of the smallest amount of mustard-seed-like faith, we will understand that Jesus the Christ is at work right now through us, changing people and through that change, changing the world. We need to worry less about ourselves and our personal wants and stop moaning about how hard life is and then live to the fullest in Jesus Christ. Living our Christian life with the faith that we have already been given and then finding out it is enough.
A lot of years ago after coaching a T-ball team with our twins on the team I was a little disappointed that every kid got a trophy just for being there on the field the last game. The boy that wouldn’t run after a hit, he got a trophy. The girl that only came to the last game, she got a trophy too. They even gave me a trophy for coaching. The exact same trophy they gave the kids, shouldn’t I have gotten a little bigger one? HA
I was a little disgusted with the rules that told us not to keep score. Each inning every kid batted and then the other team did the same. But, at the end of the game, each and every kid on our team knew the score and whether we had won or lost. They kept score when we adults weren’t supposed to. We adults were supposed to be worried about the kids and their self-esteem and they wanted to know if they had won. We were given a t-shirt to wear that told us our team’s name and some of the kids had fancy ball pants and cleats and the fanciest gloves money could buy. While most of the kids had whatever they dressed in that morning, including their old sneakers, jeans with holes in the knees, and a hand me down glove that was too big.
It occurred to me then and I believe it’s true now that maybe some of these kids, in fact most of them, already know how hard life is. I think most of the younger generation understand that life often requires a lot of hard work and that we won’t always be given everything we want. And, there are certainly plenty of older generation people who think the world should be a “gimme, gimme” place. Not, just some of the young people. I fact I think we have always had the “gimme, gimme” crowd.
When you see those polls, saying that huge percentages of the younger generation believe their college loans should be repaid by someone other than themselves, I think there are a bunch of the young people I know who were never asked. In fact when I heard that one politician was saying they should pay off all college loans for veterans, I got excited for a minute. Then I thought about it and realized I borrowed the money and I need to pay if back, if I live long enough. I believe, most of the young people I know, realize it takes a lot of work to make it in this world and many times you have to earn what you want in life. While we have older politicians telling anyone who will listen that everything should be free and no one should ever have to work for anything. Are they just trying to buy votes or do they believe that stuff?
I believe most of our young people understand the tough work ahead required for them to be faithful to Jesus Christ and each other in this life. And, I hope and pray, the Christians I know, realize never witnessing about their faith to someone who doesn’t know Jesus Christ is a sin in itself. And, I know they are trying not to sin like that, because they love their fellow man enough to not want them in hell when their life on earth is done. And. I am sure most young people know, we should take advantage of the mustard seed of faith we have been given and to use it to change the world through Jesus Christ.
Let us pray…Lord Jesus, don't give us more faith but through the power of Your Spirit, teach us to use the faith You have already given us. Call us to things that are hard, and that are true, knowing that a life of service to You is its own reward. Amen
Rev. Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
“Loving, Grace Filled God”
September 27, 2019
There used to be a public service announcement playing on TV where a teenager is sitting in a laundromat and watching another young man come in robbing everyone. The young man has the normal meth face, scarred and losing his teeth and he is so skinny. He steals everyone’s money and when he comes to the teenager in the corner, he looks up and he sees his own face. The thief yells, "This wasn’t supposed to be your life!" It is meant to warn young people not to try meth, but it touches the hearts of all who worry about the safety of their children, in a world that is filled with evil.
As I read this passage, I remembered a time, I let down my parents when I brought a friend home from the Army. It was a Saturday night and he wanted to go out so I took him to the Brown Derby. It was the local cowboy bar and usually there were some cowgirls on Saturday night. I guess you could say that was why we were going. My friend met a girl and they were dancing and having a good old time when at about eleven I told him I wanted to go to a different place. He said he was staying and would find his own way back to my folk’s house. I should have known that was a bad idea, but I wanted to go.
So, I left and went and spent more time at the other place than I should have. Then when I get home Mom and Dad were waiting up. They complained about my friend coming to the house banging on the door with a cop. That was the ride home he found for himself. And, they said, “He was drunker than a hoot owl,” that’s really drunk in their words. They told me to not bring him back to their house and then the biggy, “Don’t you come, if you can’t keep from embarrassing us.”
I said some things back that I will always regret. Yes, I know they were just angry and I was too, but I still regret telling Mom and dad that maybe I wouldn’t come back home, anymore. Yes, I apologized later and yes, they accepted my apology, but can you imagine how that hurt their hearts. Now, that I have my own girls, I am certain I broke their hearts that night.
Hosea is speaking for a broken-hearted God in this passage, as he experiences some of the same feelings my parents felt, and says, "When Israel was a child I loved him." I remember reading this passage from Hosea years ago and I found it comforting. How my God loved Israel and me so much. But, I had no idea at the time how much meaning it would hold for me later on life when I had my own children. It seems to me, this is a passage written by the Parent of all humanity for parents.
It may be even more meaningful for adoptive parents. God is like a parent who saw a child in need and took the child in. He patiently cared for the child through those formative years when children didn't understand how dangerous the world was. The child had no idea how much they needed the security of their parents and ow well they were treated. The parents watched the child learn and cared for the early accidents they experienced.
And then, the adoptive child, after all those years of loving care, wants to go back to their old family, back to the family that abandoned them. Thinking that maybe the old family, will be better. Thinking, maybe there will be more excitement and fewer restrictions. How hard that must be for adoptive parents. It is painful enough to bring a child into the world, to see yourself in them, to dream of the possibilities ahead for them. To try to keep them safe as long as we can, and then to watch as the world draws them away, into places we know will only bring them trouble. We watch as our children choose paths we know will cause them pain and sorrow but we cannot get them to turn back. But, perhaps it is even worse for adoptive parents?
This scripture are the words of a Parent looking back at the pictures of their innocent child as the young adult goes off on their own, not knowing what lies ahead for them. Will it be success and joy or failure and pain in a world that throws lives away every day? In the words of Hosea, we hear our Parenting God watching as the people of Israel move farther and farther away from their relationship with God. He knows the consequences they will face as they make the the choices of a headstrong and wayward people. Just as we as sometimes watch our own children pull away from us and their relationship with the Lord. It literally breaks our hearts.
How many parents have watched as their teen-agers fall into the world of sin, addiction, and crime? The crime often coming when they can no longer afford their addiction without stealing. As their addiction takes hold and their bodies bear the burden of meth or cocaine or one of the other myriad of things they can become addicted to, a loving parent can do so little, except wait. Just, wait and hope for their safe return, as they pray the phone doesn't ring with a policeman saying they are in jail or worse yet, dead. Our Father God knows the pain of waiting for the wayward child just as so many of us have.
God and Parent also knows the anger that is there along with the pain and sorrow. The sense of betrayal felt because we believe we have taught our children better. Often, we would have sworn our children would never do such things, but then are proven wrong.
In a world based on justice, parents might feel the child is getting what they deserve. In a world based on fairness, there would be no obligation for us or our God to forgive. When we are angry we sometimes know our child deserves what they get. Sometimes we tell them, "Don't come running back to us, we warned you. You made your bed. Now sleep in it!" How many harsh things have parents started to say and then sometimes, said to their rebellious children? Just as my Mom and Dad told me that night that if I couldn’t stay out of trouble and stop embarrassing them, I shouldn’t come back.
But in Hosea, we see God is very different than we humans are. I believe these words from God, through Hosea are some of the most comforting words in the Bible. They explain how our God is loving and grace filled. Hosea speaks the words of our God, the broken-hearted Parent when he says, "My heart recoils within me; my compassion grows warm and tender. I will not execute my fierce anger; I will not again destroy Ephraim; for I am God and no mortal, the Holy One in your midst, and I will not come in wrath."
The God who is just and righteous is also above all, compassionate and loving. As the anger cools and grace and love are remembered, God has grace in his heart. We should always remember, God doesn’t have to be kind, he could really let us have it. But, for our God, grace always comes first.
Just as a parent will not voluntarily leave our children in the hands of the drug dealers. Just as we will do whatever we can to bring our child back from the mess they have gotten themselves into. We parents are going to go into whatever mess our child is lost in, and bring the child out just as the Lord does for Israel and still does for us. Hosea continues with confidence that all is not lost, "'They shall go after the Lord, who roars like a lion; when he roars, his children shall come trembling from the west. They shall come trembling like birds from Egypt, and like doves from the land of Assyria; and I will return them to their homes,' says the Lord."
Our God is not just a long suffering and loving parent but a roaring lion protecting its cubs. God’s children react like trembling doves rushing home to find shelter under the mother's wings. God is a parent, a lion, and a loving mother hen. We see this in Jesus as God sent him to live here and demonstrate for us how we should live. Our God gave his only son to be killed for our sins not his. That is the most important and amazing example of our loving, grace filled God. Willing to do whatever it takes to save us from ourselves and what that would trick us into believing there is an easier way.
Each lost sheep and wayward child breaks the heart of our God and parents. God wants us to come home, to be at home with ourselves and with one another. Wrath and revenge are never God's goal; and since that is the true nature of God, they should never be our goals either. We may be so angry at our kid’s behavior, but beneath the anger is loss and pain with the deep desire that our wayward child will be made whole and our relationship restored.
Our hearts long to return to a home and community that leads and loves each person into living the life we were meant to live. There is a longing in us to come back to the heart of God. Come back to him with a repentant heart, asking Jesus Christ to be our Lord and Savior. When we do all our sins, all our mistakes will be forgotten by our grace-filled God. Just as my loving parents forgave and loved me even though one night we both said things that should have never been said and done. God is ready to forgive anything, when we come to him with a repentant heart.
Rev. Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
UMC, Healy Kansas
“Food for the Journey”
1 Kings 19:1-8
September 22, 2019
When I was a kid and couldn’t take my three big sisters, telling me what do and what not to do, I would load my Radio Flyer wagon and run away. I would load it with peanut butter, bread, and a glass gallon jug of milk from Grandma’s cow. It was food for my journey away from my troubles.
There was a big old cottonwood tree about halfway to Grandma and grandpa’s house. It was about a quarter of a mile north of our house, now it’s under the intersection of I-70 and US 36. I had a tree house in it and that was where I went when I ran away, away from sisters and all their rules. I would move in there eating peanut butter sandwiches and drinking milk. Until it starting getting dark, I admitted to you, a few weeks ago that I had a problem with the darkness back then. Got over it, somehow in the Army. Those days though, when it got dark, it was time to go home and explain where they had all gone wrong. Of course, I never saw any fault in my behavior it was always in the rest of the family. It was a journey away, but eventually I always had to go back home and face the music.
Elijah in our scripture lesson today, ran away, too, and, for better reasons than mine. He was the prophet to the Northern Kingdom of Israel…in what is now Syria. Lebanon, and parts of Jordan.
His journey is a journey we are all on. Whether we realize it or not, Elijah and we are all on a spiritual journey. His spiritual journey had gotten him into a fight with the priests of Baal. Baal was the god Queen Jezebel worshipped, the wife of King Ahab, king of Israel. Jezebel hated Elijah for this and told him she was going to kill him just as he killed her Baal priests. You remember the story, the Priests of Baal went up against Elijah, trying to get their god to start a fire for a sacrifice. Their false god did nothing. Elijah had them douse everything with water, and then Elijah’s God, our God the on and only true God, burnt the whole mess down with the Baal priests, too. Queen Jezebel didn’t appreciated that.
Elijah believes she is going to kill him and knows she can probably get it done, so he runs away. He ran into the desert about a day's walk and comes to a broom tree, so he sits down in the shade. Elijah, has thought and thought, but he can’t see any way out of this mess. So, he asks God to just let him die.
There are times, when many of us have had so much trouble and are so full of despair that we want to die. Maybe you can think of a time when you have thought of death as an alternative to going on. Well, that is exactly how Elijah was feeling. He had told Ahab and Jezebel the truth that they were sinning and leading Israel into sin and now he’s facing the music, for it. Elijah has come to think of death as an alternative to the loneliness and fear he’s facing. With the feeling of being the one who has done the right thing and then finding that all of the people who were supposedly on his side have just melted away. I think, we have all experienced these feelings.
We all face difficult times in our lives, when the trouble seems more than we can endure. A noticeable Christian walk with Christ can lead us into some lonely and scary times. Those times when we have to stand up against the majority and be the voice of truth. So, Elijah prays and asks God to just let him to die.
He lies down under the broom tree and falls asleep, fully expecting to wake up in heaven. I know that sometimes in our lives we have all slept the sleep Elijah slept that night. The sleep of exhaustion and disappointment, when we feel as if we cannot go on. Then there are times, when, our thoughts finally stop rushing and we sleep the sleep of unconsciousness. But, the new day always comes way too quickly. When, we have to wake up and face whatever is causing us trouble. Later that night an angel comes and wakes him up, and tells him, "Get up and eat."
When he wakes up, there is food and water that he hadn’t brought along. He eats and lies down, sleeping the sleep of the defeated. We’ve all been there? When we are so sad and so low that all we want to do is hide in our bed and sleep. Times when we are so depressed we don’t have the get up and go to do anything? That’s where I believe Elijah was. But, the angel returns and wakes him again and tells him, "Get up and eat, otherwise the journey will be too much for you."
Elijah gets up and eats and drinks and walks forty days and forty nights to Horeb. I don’t know about you, but I think it’s a good thing he had that meal and sleep. He walks to the mountain of God, the place we call Mount Sinai. Where Moses received the Law from God. Elijah goes into a cave and spends the night. There Elijah is given a vision from God. A message of hope for him and for Israel. So, that’s Elijah’s story, now, let’s think about those words from the angel to Elijah, when he said, "Get up and eat, otherwise the journey will be too much for you."
For us to survive on our journey of life, we have to have the strength to go through the difficult times that come. Those times when we feel so alone. They can come because of divorce, illness, death, or a million other terrible things. And, when those times come, we need to eat and drink what God has prepared for us. We need to be filled up, before we go out on the walk of life. We need to be nourished by the food God gives each one of us in the sacred stories of the Bible. We need to be filled by the faith stories told by the people who come into our lives through the church. We are fed and our help comes in times of prayer and communication with God. Spiritual food comes in fellowship and worship in Christ’s church. And, often our spiritual food comes in doing good for others. Especially, when we are witnesses to others for Jesus Christ. Then when we are filled by these spiritual things we are better prepared for the difficult times that come. Those times that seem to come, way too often.
Now, we must never forget, it is OK, to cry out to God when we are in need of spiritual food and are feeling hopeless. And, then we need to expect a tap on the shoulder in the middle of the night. As the voice of God whispers in our heart telling us to trust and get up and take the nourishment that is there for us. Nourishment supplied by God to give us strength before we have to face the world again. When we begin to feel as if we are running on empty. When we feel we do not have the strength to go on. I believe it is God telling us it is time to eat a spiritual meal.
The food is all round us, especially in this place and in these people who sit beside you, in this church and have placed their faith in Jesus Christ. It is in these people who know the stories of Jesus and who know where our Lord God is found. Spiritual food is given to us when we are in heartfelt communication with God in prayer and it is in the study of His Word, when we worship him here. He is there when we help others, especially when we are telling them about our faith in Jesus Christ.
Yes, God is here with us always. We just have to open our hearts and minds to his touch. God is in the truth that we share through our salvation in Jesus Christ. God is in the bread and juice we share in Holy Communion and God is in the waters of our Baptism. God is with us in the ordinary things, the daily miracles, we often take for granted. Daily miracles like the rising and setting of the sun and the beauty of the moon and the stars. Miracles like the mountains and these beautiful Great Plains we live in. God is responsible for each breath and in each of our heartbeats. He is in the birth of a child and in the care of a loved one.
Most importantly, God is here in Jesus Christ, the carpenter and teacher, I pray we all know. He is in this one who says, "I am the bread of life" and "I am the living bread that came down from heaven…whoever eats of this bread will live forever." God is in the one who said, "Lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age."
This Spiritual food is available to each and every one of us. This spiritual food will sustain us on our life journey if we will just take it and eat. It is a tragedy when we don’t notice it and leave it untouched. That disaster can be avoided if we will just open up to the Lord, and think about what will please him.
You know, sometimes this food, the spiritual fill up from God can seem pretty ordinary. It can come in simple things like a Bible study with one of two others. We have all known and seen these times. Unfortunately, they are often in times that are so familiar to us that many of us no longer notice them. Because, it may have come to feel ordinary and not so spiritual, even though it is.
Even if it has become ordinary to us, it still is powerful and magical. They are spiritual moments for those who have the eyes to see and the ears to hear them. For, those who seek God in Jesus Christ, it is there for all those who are willing to get up and eat and drink all that God has provided. If we do, we will be filled with what we need in difficult times.
Yes, God provides us with spiritual food for our journey in life and while our journey of life is often difficult and filled with trouble. I pray that each of us will take this spiritual food and eat it so we may be strong in Jesus Christ. Take and eat of what He has given. Eat so we are ready for the journey of life and yes, even prepare us for the journey of death. For, “Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never be hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.”
Rev. Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
UMC – Healy, Kansas
“Count the Cost”
September 8, 2019
My Dad knew who and what he liked. In sports he loved his Broncos, I am glad he never had to see the kneeling for the National Anthem, I think, it would have broken his heart and made him hate them forever. He loved his Colorado University Buffaloes and he didn’t miss either one of their games except in life or death situations. Yes, if you were on your death bed he would come running, but if your ailment was something not life threatening during one of their ball games, he might think about it a moment before he came to see you. Just kidding, he would come anyway, because in his heart he was a servant. Most of all he loved his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
We would only buy American made stuff. He was an America fan and some of that, I am sure came from his sacrifice in World war II and the forever sacrifice so many of his fellow soldiers, sailors, marines, and Airmen paid. I remember him saying when an advertisement for a Broncos game came on advertising Mitsubishis. Dad’s face got red and he said something like, “Well, I wouldn’t buy and drive one of their vehicles for nothing, they made the zero fighter!” He had learned to hate those planes with good reason in the South Pacific.
We all have our own prejudices and preferences and we back them up with what we buy. We often buy one brand above all else and seldom try anything different. Many of us are more loyal to the products we like than we are to a political party. Many of us vote across party lines, but would never, not ever, try something other than “Dawn” dish soap.
We love our brands. The things we buy sometimes tells more about us than we would like. Some of us like to show off with what we buy and some of us like to demonstrate our social responsibility with what we buy. We like IBM or Mac computers. I personally wouldn’t buy a Mac because when I was in the teacher’s program they tried to make me buy one. I don’t do well with edicts. Many have quit buying Nike over their support of what we consider unamerican activities and now buy New Balance. Like my dad we like our brands. There is one lady on Facebook who tickles me bragging about her Ford pickup while she makes fun of Chevys and Dodges. Those who travel a lot, even have a favorite airline.
I think we all have a bunch of this going on in our lives. We say, “I know what I like and I know what is right”…hahaha. I know the type of mechanical pencil I like and the right ink pen. They are so good my daughters and granddaughters are always trying to steal them from me. If you are willing to listen I can tell you what stores you should shop in and which ones you shouldn’t. I even know which fast food chain I like best as I remember Dad taking us there and buying us each a meal of hamburger, fries, and a Coke for 45 cents. I just wonder who would we be without our stuff?
As we think about what Jesus said that day, who were those people without their families? Jesus told them, "'Whoever comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself, cannot be my disciple." I’ll bet many you said, like me, “Whoa, hold on there, Wilber!” The first two things Jesus tells us we must give up to be his follower are family and life. It seems to get worse when he tells us to get rid of our stuff, "So therefore, none of you can become my disciple if you do not give up all your possessions."
Jesus tells us many times in the Gospels to give up material things. We often wonder, “Why, what’s the deal here?” The disciples were told they should take nothing on their evangelism trip. That makes me squirm a little, for as a soldier I used to try very hard to make sure when me and my soldiers went to the “woods” to chase the “bad guys” that we had all we needed to do the job. I am sure when you mothers take a baby on a trip you have a long list of stuff that you cannot live without.
I look at the custom harvesters going by as I write this. They have a truck for fuel that also has oil and I’ll bet some commonly used repair parts on it. They have combines and headers but also trucks to haul the grain. A grain cart and tractor to unload the combines, then at the end of the convoy there are a couple of trailer houses to sleep in when they aren’t cutting. They come to town with everything they need and if they didn’t, farmers probably wouldn’t hire them.
But, the part of this passage that bothers us the most is, "…hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters." I have no idea how I could begin to hate my five daughters and eight granddaughters and my son in laws. Yes, there are people who leave their families and never speak to them because of abuse. There are those who have been disowned. We’ve all heard about someone saying they didn’t want to enable a person they love, so they cut them loose.
But, let’s go a little deeper into this hating your family thing. First we need to remember how important family was then and still is. Think of Naomi, Ruth’s mother-in-law and how she was completely on her own when her husband and sons died. Everyone was "son of" or "daughter of" someone. Family truly was almost everything in Jesus’ time and for most of us it still is.
I am sure people hearing Jesus say this were shocked. As someone once said, "Hate" is a very strong word”. But, some scholars say this word should be translated differently. Saying we should hate our family was Jesus’ way of saying family should not be the most important thing to us.
This day Jesus was speaking to people thinking about following him, at the home of a Pharisee. These people were not committed disciples, they were searching for the answer that only Christ can give. Just as we all search for him until we find him, ourselves.
Jesus wants them to realize how important their decision is. He is telling them that their relationship with him must come first, above all else, before family, before life, and even before all their stuff. He asks them if they could build a tower without first making sure you had enough money. Or, one I used to worry about, could you go to war without figuring out what you needed to win? I say if you don’t go to win, don’t go! Our country hasn’t done that since World War II. On this day, Jesus is asking these people to decide, if they are willing to pay the cost of following him.
We too, need to count the cost before we start something new. Before we get married we need to count the costs, not just the benefits. Are we ready to forever love and care for this person, no matter what? I have seen those who dropped out of seemingly happy marriages when their spouse became ill and it broke my heart for the one who was left. I counselled with hundreds of young soldiers who hadn’t really counted the costs their enlistment in the Army would cost. How many in jail actually stopped and thought about what the cost might be if they did what they were in jail for?
When I said, “Yes,” to becoming a pastor, I thought I had calculated the costs. I didn’t foresee what going to half pay in my first appointment would do to my family. I didn’t realize how my kids were no longer Army brats but were going to be preacher brats. Causing them to be watched even more closely than when they were the Command Sergeant Major’s kids. Or, what it would do to my wife. She had to give up a job she loved when we moved to our first appointment. She worked in our churches before I was a pastor, but now she realized my success or failure in the job would depend in large part on how successful the education programs were at our churches. She half killed herself doing more than she should have, running herself ragged.
A decision to follow Jesus requires thinking all the way through the possible consequences. Jesus wants us to do an analysis of the costs. He explains by giving us examples of what could happen when people don't plan ahead. For, discipleship is different and much more important than any other experience in life. Following Jesus Christ isn’t always easy and could cost us everything. Think of the people losing their lives because of their faith in Jesus Christ, all over the world. The thousands in reeducation camps in China for their Christian faith.
Yes, loyalty to Jesus must come first, above our family and above all our stuff. Our life hierarchy must be our relationship with Jesus Christ, our spouse, our children, the rest of our family, our friends, and then everyone else. Our stuff should always come, at least, after other humans.
In the lesson before this Jesus tells those who are throwing a party, “…do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors," but invite, "…the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind." He’s telling us to give to those who cannot repay us. Maybe we should remember this the next time we are confronted by someone in need?
Jesus tells us, "Whoever does not carry the cross and follow me cannot be my disciple." Following Jesus is serious business. We each need to count the cost before we ask Jesus Christ to be our Savior.
But, can any of us, every day, every moment truly live up to the promise we make when we ask Jesus to be our Savior? We need realize we are human and perhaps not capable of putting Christ above all else, all of the time.
When we ask Christ to be our Savior we have to truly want and hope to be the Christian Jesus asks us to be. Realizing we are not going to get it done, every day, all of the time. We probably will NOT be prefect Christians after we ask Christ to be our Lord. But, we should try with all we have! Trying our very best, knowing we many not get to perfection. We all know the one who we think has gotten pretty close to perfection. But, if you truly know them, even the things they are hiding, we could see they are not there, not yet. I have a feeling none of us will be the perfect follower of Jesus Christ until we reach heaven.
So, let us first think about life and eternity without Jesus Christ. Life may seem great here on earth if you are not a Christian, you can do most anything you want as long as it isn’t against the law, but I sure wouldn’t want your eternity without Jesus. We are supposed to try to make our relationship with Jesus Christ come above all else. We may not make it, but our Lord God is always ready to forgive us when we fail and come to him with a repentant heart. So, count the cost, will you try with all you are to follow Jesus Christ. If so, I invite you to come and join us as we all try to put Christ first!
Pasor Bud Tuxhorn
Luke 14: 1, 7-14
September 1, 2019
Our Bible reading from Luke 14 is not a lesson about good manners. Jesus is using the seating arrangements at this party to teach us a lesson. Jesus sees the people jockeying for a seat by him at the dinner. They had forgotten their manners while trying to sit by Jesus and he uses it to teach us all a lesson in humility and service.
Now, there is the prosperity gospel out there that tells people a lie about faith in Christ. Telling them that humility and sacrifice are ways to find greater blessing from God in material things. We've all heard it, "I gave God a hundred dollars Sunday and Monday I got a thousand dollar refund." Or, "We are faithful Christians and because of that, our son made quarterback and our daughter got a full scholarship and sits first chair in clarinets.”
We’ve also met the mixed up person who believes that stuff, has worked in the church and says they just don't understand God. They say, "We were having all kinds of trouble and thought we would try church and God, so we started coming to church, we've been giving money and volunteering. But our marriage is still in trouble, our kids still don’t mind, and we’re still broke." Some believe humility and sacrifice are the way to financial success and complete happiness in life. Unfortunately difficult times hit Christians just like they do those without Christ. Part of it I’m sure is due to those TV preachers who tell them those lies.
Then let’s think about some things that happened to me when I was trying to serve and show humility. The other day I waved a woman from the entrance lane into a long traffic line, and she couldn't be bothered to wave a "thank you" in return. Doesn’t that just frost you? Or, the time I held the door for a young couple to go into a bookstore, and they completely ignored me, they were so wrapped up in themselves they didn't even thank me. Think about that, an old man holds the door for them and these young boneheads can’t be bothered to tell him, “Thanks.” But, when we really think about it…why are we kind and generous to others and to the Lord’s church? I hope it is not for a "thank you" or for some other reward, we are to do them simply because God calls us to do them.
We can get a little blown up about ourselves, like when I started college at the University of Southern Colorado in Pueblo, Colorado after I retired from the Army, I was old and gray compared to the other students. I wanted to get my teaching certificate to teach history and hoped to coach a country school’s sports. I had gotten used to the perks of my rank as the Command Sergeant Major of US Army Alaska and kind of expected the deference the people in the headquarters gave me. When I walked down the hall in the headquarters people made way for me. When I walked up to a group in conversation they would stop and see what I needed. Now, I don’t know about you, but a person can get used to that.
So, that first morning in college, I got a lesson in humility from the other students who were mostly eighteen years old. While those kids were probably wondering why this old man was at their school. As I walked down the hall headed to my first class, I walked like I used to do in the Headquarters. I walked right down the middle of the hall, not really expecting people to make way, but I guess my actions told a different story. Well, those kids didn’t know or care that I was the one and only retired Command Sergeant Major Tuxhorn and they did not make way for me. It dawned on me after I ran over a couple of short teenage girls that I was no longer in charge. A lesson in humility for me and fortunately no one was hurt, except my ego.
You know there are those who want their gifts to the church to be spectacular and noticed. Many don't want to give "just to the budget." They want to give something that can be seen and that people will remember who it was from. I can understand that, there is nothing glamorous about paying the light bill or paying for the church's garbage to be picked up. But, is the reason we give to God supposed to be because we want to be noticed?
Then, there are people who like to volunteer to serve in prominent leadership positions in the church, while we still can’t find enough volunteers to teach Sunday School and VBS, youth group and the after school program. Evidently there isn’t much glory in those things and many times the teachers of them are only recognized for their sacrifice later in life. I remember my Sunday School teachers and how they loved us in Christ even when we were a pain. But, until you teach the Good News of Jesus Christ to children you will never know the joy in your heart when after teaching about Jesus Christ, the Spirit touches them, and they come to Christ, filling you both with joy.
Folks, we Christians are called to humility not recognition. In humility there is obedience and obeying our Lord God has its own reward in our hearts. When we practice humility we will know that we have fulfilled God's purpose for our lives in our souls and in our spirits. We must remember, our work for God, it is not a down payment on front row seats in heaven or here on earth. This scripture tells us that our host may move us to a better seat, but…there is always the chance we’ll be moved to a table in the back.
If we think these are hard truths, think about this. Once we understand, we are called to live lives of humility and sacrificial service, who are we to be humble to and who are we to serve? The answer, as much as we would like it to be something else, is God and other people. We are to serve God, in worship, in the giving of our time and treasure, and in Bible study. But, much of what we do about loving God, will be what we do to serve other people. God does not need our money or our time or our compassion, even though we are supposed to give it. But, the people around us do. They need our money, they need our time, and they need our compassion and most importantly, they need Jesus Christ and we may the only one who will share him with them.
You know most of scripture, both the Old and New Testament, is written to believers. The Old Testament was written primarily for Israel and the New Testament to people who follow Christ. Much of scripture is teaching us how we should live our lives with other people and in the church. We are supposed to live together in harmony, in service, and in hospitality. Just look at the backs of the heads of those in front of you right now. Take a moment and really look and think about them. These are your brothers and sisters, the people who walk with you in Jesus Christ. Ask yourselves, “How can I serve them?” Then think about all those folks we know outside the church who do not know Jesus Christ and need him so badly. In what ways can we serve them that will bring their souls to faith in Jesus Christ?
A few weeks ago I talked about the Gerasene demoniac. After the demoniac was healed, he wanted to go with Jesus. But, Jesus told him to go home and tell of Christ at home among his own people. He was not asked to take his family to a new land, like Abraham. Not to preach the gospel to his enemies, like Jonah. He was not asked to leave his family and his work, like the disciples. He was asked to go home and live in Christ and proclaim the gospel among the people he knew and for many of us that is our call…to share the Good News of Jesus Christ with those we see every day. Now, if we have stayed home and never told a neighbor about our faith in Jesus Christ…if we have never or seldom ask a neighbor to church…we are not fulfilling that call. We need to be doing Christ’s work every day. Then, when and if we are to do something different God will let us know.
Remember, we are to serve humbly because God told us to and not necessarily for the thankfulness of other people. There are no perfect people to be served. We will be disappointed sometimes by those who use and abuse us as we try to help them. We’ve all had plenty of times in our lives when people were not tankful for our help and we felt used and abused. But, we need to remember we are all sinners, just like them and God loves us all anyway. We will not always be thanked, we will not always be appreciated, and we need to remember, that it is OK. For, we do the service we do, for the Lord not only, just for them.
We also need to be careful, not to get to bragging about what we have done. As we guard against getting to feeling all holy, we need to remember that we are all all fallible and each and every one of us has sin in our lives. We have all known that sweet and good Christian lady that we always wondered how there could be any sin in her life. But, there is some sin there and if you asked her she would freely admit to knowing she had some. Now, she might not tell you what it is, but she will probably admit she has some. If we start believing that there are different levels in our standing before God, it is not only dangerous, but it is arrogant. Pride and arrogance are exactly the opposite of the humility and sacrifice Jesus calls us to. For, we are all sinners, in the need of God's grace. None of us are perfect and there aren’t any perfect people to serve, but we are called to serve those imperfect people.
I didn’t get to visit my Dad at the nursing home, he was only there a week, before he died. But, my sisters tell of the last Sunday afternoon with Dad and Mom. Dad had dementia and was singing the old church hymns with gusto. He knew them all and had sung them thousands of times in his life as a Christian man. But, occasionally that day, he would become the World War II sailor of February 1946. Just home from the war and meeting his beautiful future wife Delores. When he was there he would grab Mom and pull her down on his lap and give her big kisses, as he said some less than appropriate things to her.
Now, I know my sisters were a little scandalized by some of what Dad did and said. But, I think it is a good illustration of the different parts of our makeup. Each and every one of us have some sin in us. Some of us are better at hiding them than others, but the sin is there anyway. Each and every one of us are beggars coming before the Lord needing his forgiveness and love. Not one of us is clean and sin free. We need to be remembering that when we get to thinking anyone is too mean, too nasty, or too sinful to be served by us.
One of the beautiful parts of this scripture and about being a Christian is that we are called by Almighty God to live lives of humility and sacrificial service. The hard part is that we are called to live those lives of humility and service right now. To live them today, among the broken and damaged people we meet every day. It is difficult, but let’s all do the very best we can, anyway.
Rev Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
UMC - Healy, Kansas
“Keeping the Sabbath”
August 25, 2019
When I was growing up, on Sundays we did three things; church, family, and food. I always say, that we were drug children…for we were drug to church every time the doors were open. On, Sunday morning we would have a good breakfast because Mom didn’t work on that morning at Ehman’s Grocery, for it was closed. She would cook us breakfast and then we’d all get dressed in our best clothes and go to Sunday School and then church. When I was little I always sat by Mom, she always made unsubstantiated claims about my behavior when I didn’t. Mom was an amazing soprano and behind her normal spot sat Luda a great alto and Lee Hodges a bass. I didn’t like it then but now when I hear some of these old songs I can still hear their voices.
Now, our best clothes weren’t what you’d see at some of those fancy churches. My best clothes were my newest set of jeans and my best shirt most of the time. My sisters wore their best dresses and shoes. When church was over there were often potlucks, where my dad would always go to the desert table first to get a piece of Mrs. Meredith’s chocolate cream pie. Or, we would all go home and Mom would have a roast cooked. Near the end of church many worried if the preacher went too long, the roast would burn. I don’t think crock pots had been invented yet.
After we ate there were often naps or ball games or we kids would play. On many Sundays dad would load us all up, me lying in the back window of the ’49 Ford and go to Denver to see Grandma and Grandpa Tuxhorn. They had a truck stop on the East side of Denver right on US 40. There we would sit in the café, drink fountain cokes, and watch TV. We didn’t have one at home, so it was a real thrill to watch Ed Sullivan.
But, pretty soon it was getting time for Sunday night services at 7 and we would leave for home. There was youth Bible study Sunday night and then a sermon from the Pastor. I’ll be honest that must have been tough for the preacher, writing two sermons every week. Then after church we would go home and get ready for bed.
I would guess many of your families had similar ways of spending Sundays, involving church, family, and food. I least I hope you were blessed that way. My family’s routine on Sunday was the norm for many then. Maybe some of you came from families where playing, or watching TV, or travelling just wasn’t done on Sundays. Maybe all you could do was read the Bible on Sunday afternoons and play quietly, until it was time for evening services. Many of us can remember when stores were closed on Sundays. Then the people that worked in them, like my Mom, had a day off.
All of these things we did came from people's ideas about how to obey the Third Commandment, "Remember the Sabbath day, and keep it holy." From the time this commandment was given to Moses, there has been disagreement about why we should honor the Sabbath and how we should keep it holy. The book of Exodus tells us God took a Sabbath after he finished creation…"For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but rested the seventh day; therefore, the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and consecrated it." In Deuteronomy we are reminded that we should honor the Sabbath for all the blessings he has given us, "Remember that you were a slave in the land of Egypt, and the Lord your God brought you out from there with a mighty hand and an outstretched arm; therefore the Lord your God commanded you to keep the Sabbath day." The Sabbath was meant as a gift for us, a time of rest and restoration, and I think MOST importantly, a time to worship God.
But, very quickly that gift turned into literally hundreds of laws, all sorts of rules about what was work and what wasn't, rules about what it was OK to do on the Sabbath and what was sinful. Keeping the Sabbath holy also meant reserving that day for the worship of our Lord God. Jesus and his disciples were always getting into trouble with the religious authorities for breaking the rules. It came up four times in Luke, and three of them were when Jesus healed someone on the Sabbath. The other was when the disciples were brazen enough to gather some wheat and eat it because they were hungry.
In today's Gospel, Jesus is teaching in a synagogue on the Sabbath when he notices a woman that is completely bent over with some sort of spinal problem. She had been suffering for eighteen years. The woman didn’t ask Jesus for help, she was just worshipping God with the rest of the town. But, Jesus sees her, calls her over and says, "Woman, you are set free from your ailment," and laid his hands on her.
Jesus set this woman free from the torture and pain on the Sabbath. Jesus gave her a new life, a life free from pain, free from shame, free from isolation. Remember, people believed that disabilities were punishment for sin. So, they all assumed she had some awful sin hidden that was causing her pain. Jesus restored this woman’s health, but also her sense of self-esteem, and her place in the community. She was no longer just a sinful cripple, she was, as Jesus said, a proud daughter of Abraham. Jesus reached out this woman whose life was perhaps worse than death, touches her, and gave her the health, and peace God created us for. And, we need to remember, she didn't do anything, to be healed. What Jesus does for the woman is a gift; it was pure grace. When Jesus touches the woman, she stood up straight and tall for the first time in eighteen years, and she praised God for it. She obviously knows the source of her healing, for she praises God for this wonderful, unbelievable gift of life.
Not everyone there that day felt the same way. The Head of the Synagogue was angry. He believes Jesus has desecrated the Sabbath by working. But, rather than go to Jesus and complain, he jumps on the waiting crowd and tells them to go away. He chases them away from the Synagogue a place they should always feel welcome at. He screams, 'There are six days on which work ought to be done, come on those days and be cured, and not on the Sabbath day." But, Jesus doesn’t let it drop. He tells the Priest he’s a hypocrite, for thinking it was OK for someone to untie an animal on the Sabbath to take it to water. That what he had done was not a violation of the Sabbath.
So, why wasn’t healing this sick woman, sick for 18 years OK? How can that be any different? He asks, “Is she of less worth than an animal?” The Head of the Synagogue doesn’t get it, I hope he did someday. But, his lack of understanding of God's will is shown right there in front of everyone. The rules had gotten so convoluted they had forgotten the intent of the commandments…to love God above all else and love your neighbor as yourself.
Jesus demonstrated to the crowd that keeping the Sabbath holy was not only about observing rules. Keeping the Sabbath holy was about worshiping God. And, one of the ways that could be done was by releasing people from bondage and giving them new lives so that they, too, could praise God. That's what God did for the Israelites when he led them out of Egypt. So, by healing the crippled woman on the Sabbath, Jesus is keeping, not breaking the Sabbath.
And, that's what Jesus did for you and me when, out of love, he died on the cross and rose again, releasing all those who believe in him from the bondage of sin and giving each and every one of who accept the offer, new lives. Just like for this bent-over woman, it is pure grace…completely unearned. Having received this gift, I pray we are led to thank and praise God with such joy that others cannot help but want to ask Jesus to be their Lord and Savior.
So how do we keep the Sabbath holy today? How do we worship God on this Sunday, August twenty fifth and all the rest of our lives? The ways we used to keep the Sabbath are long gone. On Sundays now, we work, we shop, we play sports, well, most of us watch them. What it comes down to really, is most of us do everything we do on any other day. We have our busy schedules and our desire to spend time with the family, and we focus on having as much fun on our free time as we can, I think we all struggle with honoring the Sabbath and using the day to worship God.
I doubt many of us would want to return to a world full of blue laws and strict rules about how to observe the Sabbath, even if we could. We are often tempted to join the many for whom Sunday is no different than any other day. Yet if we do, if we do stop on Sunday and worship the Lord we will give others an amazing witness to our faith. The very fact that we did come to worship today, says that we are looking for something more, looking for ways to keep the Sabbath holy, and to thank and praise God. We come to thank God for all the good things in our life, because we know he is the source of each and every one of them.
We keep the Sabbath when come together to remember the story of God's love. When we come to worship the Lord on this day and we should do that every Sunday. Yes, we can still travel, but we should take the time out and stop and worship our God somewhere. There are plenty of churches around, visit one. Sometimes you see some pretty unusual things. We were visiting one of our daughter’s churches in July and when the praise band was playing they had a smoke machine. I had never seen that before. But, whatever happens in the church you choose, God will know you have come to honor and worship him.
In worship, here and when we visit another church, we can experience God’s overwhelming love and grace in the prayers that are said, in the preaching, and in Holy Communion given to us as we honor the Sabbath. The elements of Holy Communion and worship brings us closer to God and to each other, in fact to Christians everywhere. We can feel the presence of God in the music and we honor God and the Sabbath as we sing it. I once told a preacher that the music often touched me more than her sermons did…not sure she appreciated my comment. In all of the parts of worship each Sunday as we rejoice in God's grace and give thanks to Him we are honoring the Sabbath and God.
Another was we worship God is when we give money for ministries here and around the globe that bring people freedom from poverty, illness, and most importantly the opportunity to make Jesus Christ their Lord and Savior. We worship when we donate food for the hungry. When we share our time and talents on projects that demonstrate God's care for this world we are worshipping him. We worship God and honor the Sabbath when we teach a child or an adult about Jesus and salvation through faith in him. And, we praise God, when we serve and love our neighbor. As Jesus taught us, these are the ways we can keep the Sabbath holy.
Rev Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
Healy UMC - Kansas
August 11, 2019
I don’t know about you but, I can’t even guess what is going to happen next in my life. I’ll get up expecting a nice quiet day of work and then a call comes in and I’m on the road to some emergency. Now, I’m not complaining, after all that is part of my job, emergencies. But, there are definitely surprises in our work life and in our everyday lives that happen all the time. I know you have them too, in your lives.
Carla and I took a vacation a few years ago and when we got home that night I was a good boy and unpacked my suitcase. Then I got lazy and rather than take the suitcase downstairs to put it away correctly, I threw it down the basement stairs. It splashed when it got down there. The basement had a about a foot of water in it. There was a spring under the house and the sump pump had stopped working.
I won’t bore you with the party that became, but I will tell you there was a man and his wife who made our emergency their emergency. They came and fought through all of the mess for three days with me. In the morning I was actually a little jealous of Carla going to her very hard job each morning. But, those folks helped me get through to the end of the cleanup.
Sometimes the emergencies in our lives are life threatening, like when I was stationed in Fort Douglas, Utah and I got a call that Mom is going to have open heart surgery tomorrow. I was told that she was in the hospital with major blockages and they have to fix them or she would die. Now, then I knew a lot less about open heart surgery than I do now, I hadn’t had my own. So, I went in to talk to my boss about Mom and he said, “Go.” Not put in a leave request, not, we’ll talk about it tomorrow, just, “Go.” He was a good man, who cared about his subordinates.
I remember a lady who was so proud of her children, she had a daughter and a son and she was so excited that next year her son would graduate from high school. She was so sure he would get a football scholarship and maybe even go to the NFL. Then she was diagnosed with cancer. In too short a time she was in a hospital bed dying with her family around her and she wouldn’t get to see all the wonderful things her son and daughter would do in their adult lives. She certainly would have loved the two children they have now.
The guy I replaced in our last tour in Alaska as he retired had a great plan. He and his wife were staying in Alaska, he had a job selling insurance at much better pay than his Army check had been. They loved fishing with their new twenty four foot, ocean ready boat was prepared for many halibut fishing trips. They were hunters and their living room looked like a natural history museum with all the mounted heads. Then about six months later the secretary buzzed me and told me I had a call. It was his wife and he had died of massive heart attack and was gone.
That's the trouble with trouble, it seldom warns us its coming, but we can rest assured, its will. Trouble doesn’t warn us and say, "Ready or not, here I come!" If it would we could at least get ready for it, or better yet, we could avoid it altogether. But, most of the time that’s just not how life works. In fact, we are all one of three people today; we are a person coming out of trouble, we are one who is in the middle of trouble, or we’re about to have some trouble and that's life.
It is because of this truth that our lives are often defined by how we respond to trouble. Think about it. Addicts who do not want to face real life, numb themselves to the world with drugs. Some people lash out in anger in response to trouble, breaking things and hurting others. Atheists blame the absence of God for trouble. The self-centered avoid all responsibility for their trouble, blaming everything on someone or something else. Look at many people and you will see people who responded to difficult situations in their lives in unhealthy and unwise ways.
At the bottom of all unhealthy responses to trouble is one bad word. This word is the enemy to all that brings life and joy and peace and hope to us. That word awful word is "panic." We panic, when we feel the world is out of control. Panic often causes us to grab onto something, anything that makes us feel like we are in control and it's often an unhealthy or poor choice.
Sound familiar? Maybe you are putting on a good show for others, but inside you can feel yourself coming apart at the seams. Maybe your business is failing. Maybe you can't find a job and the bills are piling up. Maybe your marriage is in trouble. Maybe you're just barely living between doctor appointments and you are scared to death about your own end. Often the trouble we are facing causes us to panic.
Well, we need to know one thing. There is another and a better choice than panic. We can find peace in the middle of our storms. We can calm the storm inside us, finding help and hope and all we only need one thing to do it.
Oh, I have known people who have this one thing. I walked into the hospital room and saw that lady I talked about earlier, in her 40's dying of cancer. Her family and friends were all there telling funny stories about her and her life. I remember thinking to myself, “What are they doing she is dying?” But, then I saw it in her eyes, she was loving every minute of her time with them and from conversation and prayers with her earlier I knew she had it.
My Dad had it. I could see it when he prayed. As a kid, I would open one eye as he prayed at church and watch him. My Dad had it.
John Wesley had it. It is what transformed his ministry. He found IT at Aldersgate in a Bible study with some Moravian Baptists.
Reed and Valerie Rolfs as she fights brain cancer have it. In the middle of Valerie’s fight with cancer they both find strength in it. Bill and Barbara have it, as they face dialysis for the rest of her life, they have it.
Many others have had it over the years, and it has made all the difference in their lives. It gave them strength to deal with trouble and with inspiration to do many amazing things even in difficult times. It goes all the way back to Abraham. Because he had it, all the rest of us can have it, too. He had it when God told him to leave everything he knew, and he had no idea where God was sending him and his wife. He had it when God told him and his wife Sarah they were going to have children, when they were way too old for that. Abraham had it. You know what it is? Well, I am sure you have guessed it, after all IT is the name of the sermon, it is Faith. In Hebrews, faith is defined as…”…the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen."
You see, despite what some of us might think about ourselves, we Christians are not perfect. No matter what we might think, we are certainly not in control. We Christians just do not have all the answers. Christians are not folks that can give the perfect theological answer to every question.
But, Christians ARE those who have learned and know in their hearts, like Abraham, that God can be trusted. God can be trusted to give peace in the middle of the storm. God can be trusted to take what is evil and transform it into something worthwhile and good. God can be trusted to give us strength in the middle of trouble and if the trouble we are experiencing ends our life here, God can be depended on to catch us when we die through your faith in Jesus Christ. Yes, my God and your God can be trusted!
You all know I used to be a paratrooper. Sometimes it would be really easy to get a little scared and panic on parachute jumps. Like the time my main parachute had one of the risers over the canopy. It would have been easy to panic as that five hundred test parachute cord ate its way with friction through the nylon canopy of my parachute cutting it in half.
Or, the time I landed on another paratroopers open parachute and was wading thigh deep in all that nylon. I was supposed to jump off and hope my own parachute inflated. It would have been easy to panic. But, I often remembered a comment from one of the instructors in jump school. He was teaching a class on malfunctions of the parachute and he told us that day, “When all else fails, trust the equipment and your training. If you do that, you will make it through”. And, I had it, I had the Lord Jesus Christ in my heart.
But, in all these times of danger and in many others in different situations in my last career that was often a dangerous occupation, I always had my faith. At the door of the aircraft I always said a little prayer, “Here we go Lord, take care of me, please,” and I always knew I had my Lord God with me and I always knew he would catch me if I fell. It didn’t matter what happened my Lord God through my faith in Jesus Christ would and still will catch me. Like Abraham and so many before me, I had it, too!
When trouble comes, we often try to grab on to God. When we should have already been there. Try to open a relationship with the Lord when we should have already been walking and talking with him every day and every night. When we should have already asked him to be our Lord and Savior.
But, if you have never asked Christ to be your Lord, it’s not too late, please, do it today. He wants to be your safety net and all it takes is for you to come to him with a repentant heart and ask him to be your Lord and Savior. He is always there, ready to catch us.
If we are already in Christ we don’t need to start something new when trouble strikes. Thank God, He is there, he loves us, he’s ready to help us through the times of trouble, and he’s always ready to catch us when and if the trouble we are in, ends our life. Thank God, for our Lord Jesus Christ he WILL catch us.
Let us pray…
Lord, we are not giving up, but we are handing our trouble to you. We are letting go and allowing you to take over. For, it is in the One our faith is based in that we pray, in Christ's name. Amen.
Rev. Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
UMC, Healy, Kansas
“What’s Most Important?”
August 4, 2019
The scripture lesson is all about an inheritance, about who gets what after someone’s death? The loss of a loved one hurts us deeply and unfortunately we often get hurt again by the arguments over who gets what. So, to keep that from happening many folks make out wills, writing down in the will who gets what and we hope it will seem fair to all the recipients. We know death brings enough pain, so we try to ease some of it with a fair and equitable will.
Greed an old, old sin and often sneaks in quietly at these times and causes even more trouble. As people keeping score of who gets what, there sure can be some family problems at these times. Old conflicts and old jealousies that were almost forgotten, sometimes raise come up again.
For example, when my Mom died, there was a little money and it was split up evenly between us four kids. Each of us getting a fourth of it. So, far so good. Then we started dividing up the stuff in her apartment. I wanted a painting of a hobo that I had painted and sent to Mom and Dad, while I was in Germany. When I was moving back to the states and sent it to Mom and Dad’s house so it wouldn’t get damaged in shipment. My plan was to get it back when I got home. But, by the time I got home, Dad had already framed it and hung it on the wall. Evidently, he and Mom loved it. What could I do…I just chalked it up in my memory that someday when Mom and dad were gone I would get it back. But, on this day, I couldn’t find it anywhere. I was beginning to think one of my sisters had taken it and I was getting angry.
I told Carla about it and she asked where the painting was and one of my sisters remembered that Mom had given it to my aunt, her sister. Man, of all the things that could happen that painting of mine, the one I loved the most, it seemed so unfair that I wouldn’t get it and I had a flash of anger at Mom and my Aunt. But, that day, we all seemed to have felt we had gotten our fair share. But, there were surely opportunities for someone to be hurt. All four of us knew about others having their problems with this chore and we didn’t want trouble among us over stuff so we were nice to each other. But, when someone passes it sure can bring out all kinds of greed in us. This is one time when maybe you are fortunate to not have a lot to divide up.
In our Bible lesson a man comes up to Jesus, the famous rabbi, and asks, “Jesus, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me.” As Scooby Do says, “Rutroh.” Let’s read between the lines and think about what is happening in this guy’s life. Well, we know the man’s father has died. It was a time of sadness and sorrow for him and we also see there are two boys in the family. Jewish law said the oldest boy got two thirds; the youngest got one third. Maybe there was a little jealousy and resentment over that, but it was the law. So, the younger son would only get a third no matter what happened.
The oldest son also has control over the property. He can do what he wants, when he wants. People usually resent it when someone else has control of what you feel is yours. I’ll bet, the younger son has already asked for his part of the inheritance and the big brother hasn’t given it to him. Maybe the older son couldn’t afford to buy his younger brother out; maybe he is afraid his younger brother will take the inheritance and waste it. Who knows? But, the youngest brother must have believed that Jesus would support him in getting his share or he wouldn’t have asked. So, what does Jesus do? Well, first off, we need to remember Jesus is God on earth, all-knowing and all-seeing, so he can read this young man’s heart and understand his motives.
Jesus, knowing the heart of this young brother, said to him, “Be careful, watch out for greed, the good in a person’s life is not having the most stuff”. Then he says, “Let me tell you a story: a rich man had so much didn’t know what to do with it”. The man thought to himself, “I’ll tear down my old barns and build bigger ones, I’ll store all my grain and all my goods and all my toys.” I added the toys in there. So he did all that. Then he said to himself, “I have plenty for years to come. Take it easy. Just eat, drink and be merry.” But God said to him: “Fool, tonight your soul will be required of you, and then what will happen to all your grain and all your stuff?” What was Jesus trying to tell the young man who wanted his part of his inheritance now? What did Jesus know about his heart and his motives? It seems to me, reading between the lines; we see he has made three mistakes about the inheritance.
The first mistake is thinking the purpose of money is to have a life of “eat, drink and be merry.” Maybe, Jesus could see that he was planning to use it to eat, drink, and be merry. Maybe that is why the oldest brother wasn’t going to give him his part of the estate. In our culture we hear, “Eat, drink and be merry, for tomorrow you may die,” all the time. That attitude has become a part of our culture, a part of our American philosophy of life. Many people believe, we should not worry about the future, that we should just live for today, as if there was no tomorrow. They act as if there is no God and no accounting to him for our lives after this life. They never think about others and their needs. Many in our society says we should, eat, drink and be merry, for tomorrow we may die.
But, for the man in the parable, God answers him with, “You fool, tonight your soul will be required of you.” He is telling this young man and us that there is more to life than our time here on earth. He tells him there is a God, there is a judgment by God, and there is an eternity. To just eat, drink and be merry is a dangerous way to live if we are to meet God face to face tonight. It is a dangerous because each and every one of us will meet God when we die. We learn in this story, that there is more to life than just taking care of ourselves. That it is wrong to allow our wants to take precedence over everything else.
So, why is it foolish to live like this? Why is it foolish to live life, eating, drinking and being merry? Why is it foolish, to live only for ourselves and our own pleasure? Unfortunately, for many people the primary purpose of their lives is the pursuit of their own pleasures. It is in all of our advertising; it is in all of our movies and TV; it totally saturates our culture. We are constantly told by the media that the primary purpose of life is the pursuit of personal pleasure. You know, it is tough being a committed Christian in a culture like this. So, Jesus tells us so, “Be on guard, be careful about all kinds of greed, for life does not only consist in the abundance of possessions”.
A second mistake of the young man was making and many of us make, is accumulation of lots of stuff makes us happy. For some, the more we have, the happier we are. But, Jesus said, “Life does not consist in the abundance of possessions.” Maybe this man thought the purpose of life was to accumulate as much stuff as possible. It is a common mistake. Many think lots of stuff brings greater happiness and pleasure to their lives. Yes, we can have short term fun with some of that stuff, but it does not prepare us for eternity.
We hear people say, “Whoever dies with the most toys wins.” I think deep down inside of us, we all know that the most valuable things in life aren’t things. When my Mom and my Dad died; they didn’t have a lot of toys; but they were the richest persons I knew and it had nothing to do with money. They didn’t leave a lot of money and not many possessions. But, I do have an amazing inheritance from them. I didn’t get a lot of toys but I got the best possible things from them.
But, I have their love in me, their joy for life, their values, their work ethic, and most important of all, my faith in Jesus Christ, that they led me too. I inherited the good stuff; but not a lot of toys. I think that is what all parents should strive for! Teaching our kids the best things in life are not material; they are not physical; they are spiritual, emotional, and invisible as we lead our families to faith in Christ are the most important thing we can ever do.
The third mistake with money that Jesus saw in the young man’s heart? He believed financial wealth would give him security for the future. But, all that stuff gives a false sense of security. Jesus said, “The rich farmer had a great year with a bumper crop, and so he built bigger barns, saying to himself, ‘I have stored up many goods for years to come. My, my, how secure I am.’” Many people find security in their financial nest eggs. But, I can’t count the times I have seen those who are best prepared for retirement die before they have enjoyed a single moment of it. God warns us not to find our security in money, wealth or bank accounts. Jesus says, “Look at the birds of the air and the lilies of the field. If God takes care of the birds of the air and the lilies of the field, won’t God take care of you?” I am not saying that we shouldn’t prepare ourselves for retirement but please don’t put all our trust in our financial nest eggs, in money, in bank accounts. Let’s place our trust in our faith in Jesus Christ.
If you haven’t yet come to Christ with a repentant heart and asked him to be your Lord and Savior, please, do it right now, do it today. Put you trust in Jesus Christ for eternity is a long, long time and faith in Christ is the ONLY way to prepare for it.
As we read this story and listen to the advice Jesus gave this man, we see that Jesus felt the young man was making three mistakes. First off, for him the purpose of money was to make it easy to live a life of eat, drink and be merry. He may also have believed that whoever dies with the most toys wins. Just know, that a life of placing possessions above our relationship with Jesus is the most important thing for each and every one of us, and a life will not be ruined because Mom gave her sister a painting. Know that financial wealth does not and never will give us security for the future, for eternity! Than is found only a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.
Rev. Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
UMC Healy, Kansas
July 28, 2019
How many times have you finally given in and bought what your kids were begging for, when they begged for so long it felt like forever? I guess I was ten or twelve and we lost Laddie, our old Collie dog. He was my buddie, followed me everywhere I went and I often slept with my head on him. Mom didn’t like him in the bed, he kind of got them dirty and smelly. But, I didn’t mind. Laddie and I were buddies. He died after an incident with a porcupine. Evidently Dad and I missed a quill and it went to his brain.
I immediately started begging and praying for a puppy. Mom kept saying, “No”. I think a good part of the reason was that she was heartbroken over the loss of Laddie. But, it didn’t stop me from begging. I was also complaining about me being dogless to my grandpa. He always agreed with me, that it was a darn shame a boy didn’t have a dog.
One day after begging Mom for a dog, I went the half mile north to Grandpa’s house to tell him about how mean my Mom was. When I walked in his house, a little cream and white ball of fluff ran to me, entire body shaking with its wagging tail. I was thrilled and Grandpa said that since my Mom wouldn’t let me have a pup he decided to get himself one. He told me that if I wanted, I could come and see her. That puppy and I had a great time and then Mom called and told me to come home it was almost time for super. Grandpa told me I should take the pup up to the house and let my Mom see what she was missing by not letting me have a puppy.
So, I put her under my arm and walked the half mile home. When I walked in, I hollered, “Look at Grandpa’s new puppy.” Mom took her and hugged her and fell in love. Finally, I told mom that I thought I had probably better get her back to Grandpa’s before dark. I think in those days, I had issues with the dark. She looked at me for a moment and then at the puppy and said, “That old man won’t take care of a puppy, we’re keeping her here.” She always did have a soft spot for animals. Then, she called Grandpa and told him we were going to keep her here at our house so she would be safe and well cared for. Grandpa didn’t argue, I wonder if this was his plan from the start.
You know I think we bug and bother the people we are closest to, like I did Mom about a puppy. We don’t bother and bug those who are not close, for things we want and we don’t beg and bother neighbors who are not close friends. Maybe it is only because those people won’t tolerate us bugging and begging them like a friend. In our scripture lesson for today a friend is begging and bugging his neighbor. And, I believe that this parable from Jesus illustrates that we are to bug and bother God in our prayer life.
So, what happened that night Jesus is telling us about? The neighbors had a friend show up after midnight to visit. They had nothing in the house to give the friend to eat or drink. Guess they didn’t have a refrigerator and cabinet like Carla and I have? Can you imagine Carla and I going over to Shay’s or Taldo’s, banging on the door asking for food, after midnight? So, this man goes over to the neighbors and bangs on their door. He keeps knocking until finally the home owner finally yells, “I’m asleep, and so are my kids, you are going to wake everybody up, quit banging on my door!” Knowing he is a good, good friend and neighbor, he just keeps on knocking until the whole family is up.
Jesus tells us the neighbor will get up and give him wine and the bread, not just because of their friendship, but also because he wants to the guy to quit banging on his door. And, that’s how it should be in our prayer life, we are to bug and bother God until our prayers are answered. Jesus then told us these wonderful words, “…so I say to you. Ask and it shall be given you. Seek and you shall find. Knock and the door will be open to you.” Asking, seeking and knocking are all examples of bugging, and begging in our prayer lives.
We are not to be reasonable and rational and proper in what we ask God for, we are to be persistent beggars. We are to pray as our children do…asking for the moon and believing God will answer their prayers. Many American Christians don’t pray like this very often. Many of us might, at most, knock on God’s door once or twice a day. Maybe at bed time or at supper? Jesus taught us to knock often and long. But, not many of us pray that way and I think there are four main reasons why many American Christians don’t pray like that.
First is, American Christians are just so darn busy. The richer a culture is, the less time it has for prayer. The statistics are awful, that the average American Christian prays four minutes a day and the average pastor prays seven minutes a day. I felt a little better as I was writing this and saw these statistics, because I do pray more than the average pastor if the statistics are right. But, I know, I don’t pray nearly enough. When we are busy one of the first thing to go in our lives is our prayer life.
Another reason American Christians don’t pray very much is that many of us don’t believe prayer does much good. For many Americans, prayer is essentially talking to yourself; a positive pep talk; psychological motivation to do better. Instead of what it should be…a conversation with our Lord God and friend. Too often I think for many, prayer is just a formality, where we check off on an imaginary list, “Yep, I prayed about that” and we think we have done our duty. Often we pray as if once is enough for the most important things in our lives and it just isn’t.
A third reason that many American Christians don’t pray very much is many believe God should protect them from all the disasters of life without a prayer asking him to do it. And, if they do pray…once about something, then when something horrible happens. Some begin to believe there must not be a God and that prayer does no good. According to this logic, the Apostle Paul should have been protected from all the trouble he experienced. But, he wasn’t, remember I talked about it last week. Or, that God should have protected Job from the disasters of his life. Some believe that since God didn’t’ protect Job, it proves prayer doesn’t really do any good. God didn’t even protect his own son from the dangers on this earth. I’m afraid many American Christians don’t pray enough because they really don’t believe God will protect us from the disasters of life.
A fourth reason that American Christians don’t pray very much is many of us don’t walk very closely with God. To have any close relationship, we need to talk often with God, about everything in our lives. You can’t have a close relationship with anyone without persistent intimate conversation. Would any of us say, four minutes a day, is enough for an intimate relationship with God.
So, if you add it all up, if you add up all these reasons, many American Christians have perhaps decided prayer is a waste of their time and does nothing to change their lives. I think one of the reasons our society has so many problems is we just don’t pray enough…none of us! Our society is so filled with broken down marriages and broken down families. We have more people in prison than anyone in the industrial world. In many cities it is dangerous to walk down the streets. Many churches are literally disappearing and I think part of the problem is we Christians don’t pray enough.
If we ask an American Christian who prays four minutes a day, “Does prayer work?” Many American Christians, if they are honest will say, “Well, I don’t know, but I doubt it.” But, if you ask Christians in South America, Asia and Africa about the effectiveness of prayer, they answer, “O yes. Prayer works enormously well.” They thank God that they have that lifeline because it is dangerous to be a Christian in many of those places. They know they need the Lord’s help to make it through. You don’t ask a person who has played baseball once how to play and you probably shouldn’t ask many American Christians for advice about prayer, they don’t do it enough.
Jesus our example setter, prayed. All through his life, Jesus had a strong prayer life. Today we read about the disciples, who after watching him pray, asked him to teach them how. Jesus prayed first thing in the morning to thank God for the night. Do we? He prayed at noon time, to thank God for the day. Do we? He prayed to God before he fell asleep, thanking God for the day and asking God to keep him safe. Do we? He also prayed at every meal even when he was out in public. That seems to be a problem for some of us, but not for Jesus. Do we?
Jesus’ prayer life was real and showed us how he believed prayer was important and that it had an effect on his life. He prayed at times of trouble, like during the temptation in the desert, he prayed in the garden of Gethsemane before his crucifixion, and he even prayed on the cross before he died. Jesus also prayed at blessed times of life such as the wedding Cana and when he healed. I can see in my mind’s eye him praying for a friend’s new baby or at a marriage, blessing it. He prayed during good times and bad, he prayed at all times.
Jesus wanted his disciples to be people of prayer and prayer was the first thing the disciples asked Jesus to teach them. Before they asked for the power to preach or to heal, they asked to learn to pray. Do you think they thought it was powerful and important? Well, Jesus’ disciples have been asking that same question ever since.
Christians are to continue praying for what we think we need until we get it or are given an answer. Jesus tells us, “Ask and it shall be given you. Seek and you shall find. Knock and the door will be opened to you.” But, there is something we need to remember, the answer to our prayers may not always be what we thought we needed.
I had a personal reminder of that recently as I prayed for my friend DD Howard. He had gone to the hospital that morning because he was having trouble breathing. When I got there, I prayed with him for God to heal him and make him whole and well. Now, in my heart I was praying for him to go home from the hospital and continue being my friend. But, he died that afternoon and my prayers were answered in heaven. The joy in my answered prayer, was that he was made whole and well in heaven, I have no doubt of that when he went to be with his Savior in heaven. Not the whole and well I had imagined and had been asking for, but he truly was healed and made whole and well in paradise. We Christians are to be persistent in our knocking on God’s door and persistent in our prayers. Knowing God will decide the right answer.
Have any of us ever kept track of who and what we have prayed for and then were amazed at how faithfully God has answered our prayers, just not always in the ways we had asked. I saw that with my prayers for DD and his prayers were answered too. Just a few weeks before he asked me to sing “I Want to Walk Over Heaven With You” for him and Ruth at their fiftieth wedding anniversary. I didn’t know his prayer from that song, to walk through heaven, would be answered so quickly for him, but it was, and someday Ruth, his wife, will be there too.
The disciples saw Jesus finish his prayers that day and they asked him to teach them to pray. Now, I believe that is one of the reasons you are in church today. We too have asked Jesus to teach you to pray and that prayer has been answered and is continually be answered if we will only listen. Let’s be prayers, like Jesus.
Rev Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
Healy UMC - Healy, Kansas
July 14, 2019
We have all heard the story of the Good Samaritan. A man is attacked along the road, is robbed, and left for dead, they even took his clothes. Then along came a Priest, a so-called Holy man. I don’t know, maybe he was on his way to do something holy? But, he saw the man, lying naked in the ditch, all beat to a pulp and maybe he was afraid the bad guys hadn’t left? Besides, he couldn’t mess with a bloody body, it would make him sacrificially unclean and he wouldn’t be able to worship in the Temple. So he crossed to the other side of the road and tried very hard to ignore the man lying in the ditch. He had important things to do and didn’t have time for someone who had been stupid enough to allow himself to be assaulted. Isn’t it sad, he missed his chance to do something holy right there beside the road?
Then along came a Levite. Levites were assistants in the Temple. He couldn’t be late…what would the priest do if the altar wasn’t sat up and the candles weren’t lit. But, he too was probably afraid the robbers might not be gone. He sure didn’t want to be there if they came back. Why, he’d wind up in the ditch with that guy. Lying there naked with everything he owned stolen. So, he hurried and crossed the road, trying not to see this poor, innocent man in the ditch. He thought he had much more important work to do, than helping someone he didn’t know, lying in a ditch.
Then along comes the Samaritan man. He sees the man, but, he really sees the man, he forgets all about where he was going and what he was going to do when he got there. He does not worry if the robbers are still there. He sees only a hurting person, a person in need of help from him personally, and for him that takes precedence over everything else. He dresses the man’s wounds and puts some clothes on him. He takes him to an inn and pays for the man’s care and only then continues his trip. Leaving the man in the care of the Inn owner, but fully intending to return to see how this man is doing and to make sure he has received good care. So, that’s the parable of the Good Samaritan in a nutshell.
Now, we have all been in situations when someone needed help and we did the right thing and helped in every way we could. I often think of an old alcoholic man Carla and I kind of adopted in one of our churches. He had leukemia and we took him to doctor appointments, we gave him food, both things we cooked and groceries. I think Carla even did some washing for him. He thanked us by attending church and by trying, not always successfully to stay out of the bottle. It was such a joy to get to know him and to listen to his amazing stories. I later did his funeral and what a joy it was to tell how he loved Jesus Christ even though he had that bottle on his back.
I think for all of us, there have been others who had something we knew they had done or we suspected them of doing that seemed to put them below our level of caring. People we believed were just too awful, too sinful, or too worthless to deserve our help or our time. I also think we have all been in situations where we have done the right thing, the Good Samaritan” thing. And, we have all checked people out who needed help and decided they were undeserving, or maybe too scary to help. I also think we all know what our correct response is in those times? We do know what we should do, don’t we?
As I was studying this passage, I was wondering about what this wounded guy in the ditch was thinking. What was going through his mind and heart when people walked by trying very hard not to see him? Did he call out to them and they pretended not to hear?
What was he thinking when the Priest walked by on the other side of the road? Did he see him cross to the other side of the road so he wouldn’t have to be near him? I wonder was he a man who had no faith in God and when the priest ignored him…was his lack of faith made even stronger? I imagine him thinking, “Just like one of those Temple people, ignoring those who need their help, while getting fat and sassy in the Temple on the backs of the poor people who give”? Did he think, “That big shot thinks he is better than me, because he isn’t in the ditch half beaten to death”?
Did he think the same things when the Levite walked by? Did he notice that the Levite crossed the road, to not be near him? Was he permanently turned off on God and faith by these so-called holy men? I wonder if he is spending eternity in hell, because two people who were supposed to have faith in a good and loving God, walked right by him when he was in terrible need?
And, I wonder when you and I walk right by someone in need? Do those thoughts go through those people’s mind when we cross the road to avoid those in need? Maybe we don’t literally cross the road, but we do go through some pretty wild contortions to avoid being involved in the lives of those who need help. You know, eyes straight ahead, so that we do not meet the eyes of a needy person we want nothing to do with. Or, the phone calls we ignore, because we recognize the number and do not want to hear the same old sad stories from this person we know is in need. Or, the times we do not answer the door because we know who is there and we tell ourselves we have no time for their troubles or maybe we just don’t care?
Yeah, I know we hear people talking about how they never give money to people who ask for help because they do not want to we become an enabler. First off, do you think maybe we’re a little too quick to worry about being an enabler? Are we sometimes using it as an excuse not to help? Isn’t that a little like crossing to the other side of the road like the Priest and the Levite? I have done it, stopped helping folks because it became obvious I was enabling them. But, we should all think long and hard before cutting back on helping others for these reasons. I think I have told you about the guy and his kids that I gave fifty dollars to and then saw him going in a liquor store. I was angry, but when it all comes down to it…I had done the right thing and my heart had been in the right place. But, Satan had a hold on that man and maybe some of that money got to his children? Maybe we all should be a little quicker to help and a lot slower to judge the needy?
As I wrote this sermon, I also thought about times when I was literally the man in the ditch. Like the time on a very hot day, I had a heat stroke and died. A combat medic stepped up and did what so many emergency people do every day. He checked my pulse, I will never forget when he said, “He’s gone!” I wanted to tell them, “No, I’m not,” as I was watching them carefully a few feet away. I’m not sure if I knew all they were supposed to do, but I guess they did it all or God just wasn’t finished with me here on this earth. He got my heart beating again and they evacuated me to a hospital. Physically I needed help and, “Thank the Lord,” I got it from a combat medic that knew his business, wasn’t afraid to do it, and didn’t look away and pretend nothing was going on. I was, and still am, thankful for his help.
Then there are the times when I was in the ditch mentally and spiritually. Like the time I was partying one Saturday night, trying to forget my problems and met a person who invited me to church the next morning. Or, the time I was hating someone and a friend told me I needed to get rid of the hate and told me how to do it. Or, the time when I was so lonely, I would virtually go anywhere to just not be alone. So, I went to a line dancing class on a Thursday night. Believe it or not, I wasn’t very good at it? I met a beautiful young woman there, who had some of the same problems I had but was willing for us to work them out together. We’re still together after all these years and are still working out our problems and life’s battles together.
I say today, “Let’s all be Samaritans who help others out of the ditches they find themselves in”. Let’s all be the one who helps the person who has found themselves in a ditch of some kind. Let’s be the one, who gives the one in the ditch material and emotional help. Let’s all be the one who does not judge but just tries to help. And, then let’s also be the one who offers to help the person in the ditch to come to Jesus Christ. Because, through our faith in him we know Christ is the answer to all of their problems and ours.
We have all been in a ditch of some sort in our lives. Every one of us sometimes need help getting out of the ditch. We all have those times when fellow human beings guided by God, whether they know they are working for God or not, help us out of our ditch. That ditch may be physical, mental, or spiritual, but after we have helped them we need to tell them about our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. For, there are no problems more important than being without Christ. We all need him and we need to always remember, “The ditches of this world are only temporary, but being without Jesus Christ in our hearts when we die is forever!”
Let’s never be the Christian who doesn’t try, at least try, after we have helped them out of the ditch, to lead those who are hurting to Jesus Christ for it is after all, the best and only preparation for forever.
Rev. Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
Healy United Methodist Church
Luke 8: 26-39
July 7, 2019
As I read this passage I was thinking of a visitor to our house when I was a boy. My Mom’s Mom came to stay with us until her house was finished in town. Her house was in the way of I-70 and was bulldozed to make way for it. Well, one morning we all got up and Grammy, that’s what we called her, was cooking. We had eaten a lot of her food and it was great, we were so excited. But, then someone asked what was for breakfast and Grammy said with a big old smile, “Scrambled pig brains and eggs.” We immediately began to wonder if this visit from Grammy was going to be nearly as good as we thought.
Then Dad walked in, I think he had smelled breakfast cooking and it didn’t smell all that good. He looked in that old twelve inch cast iron frying pan that was heaping full and asked, not as nicely as us, “What is that?” Grammy smiled, she was really pulling out her best stuff for us, and said again, “Scrambled pig brains and eggs.” Dad didn’t say a word, he just picked the pan off the stove and threw it out the door. He was our hero, we didn’t have to try scrambled pig brains and eggs. Then Dad looked out the back door and said, “Look, the dogs won’t even eat it.” I think the dogs wouldn’t eat it because it was hot, but Dad maybe shouldn’t have said that? It wasn’t the best environment around our house for the few weeks it took for Grammy’s house to be ready in town. You might say it was a little frosty and Dad and we kids worked every moment on it, when Dad wasn’t working at his regular job.
Now, you might say that visit didn’t really come out too well. But, what about the visit of Jesus and his followers to the Gerasenes’ land, it depended on who you asked. With Grammy, there were some good things, she was a great cook and she was normally fun to be around. But, none of us would ever forget that time she tried to feed us scrambled pig brains and eggs. It kind of worried a feller a little, that she might try it again when Dad wasn’t home. Because, at our house you ate what was served.
You know, different visits can be so different, some visits are wonderful and some are absolutely awful. Many of the Gerasene people probably weren’t thrilled by Jesus’ visit. I’ll bet those farmers who lost their hogs weren’t all that happy about Jesus’ visit? Would you be?
So, what if Jesus came to visit here? What would we do? How would we feel? Would we be excited and honored and do all we could to make his visit wonderful? Would we be comforted and uplifted by a visit from Jesus? Or, would we be nervous and worry, hurrying to do some extra cleaning and straightening of the house? What would we cook? I’m guessing it wouldn’t be pig brains and eggs? So, what would we do if Jesus came to visit?
Today, Jesus visits the country of the Gerasenes, a Gentile region on the east coast of the Sea of Galilee. No matter where Jesus went when he came to visit, things were no longer normal. For, where ever Jesus is, everything is changed and transformed. This visit to the Gerasenes caused quite an uproar.
Almost before he could get off the boat, Jesus is met by a very sick man. This man is naked and obviously mentally ill. He comes at Jesus from his home in the cemetery, and he is shouting at Jesus to leave him alone, not to torment him. We find out later, it is not the man who is speaking to Jesus, but the demons who are in him who are afraid of Jesus. The demons have good reason to be afraid of Jesus. Jesus later destroyed them and restored the man to health. This is the transforming power of God in Jesus Christ at work.
The reactions to the visit of Jesus are different. The demons realize they are in the presence of God. They are some of the forces of Satan and are still active in all our lives and in this world, and are always afraid when they come into the presence of the Lord. But, the reaction of the Gerasenes to the healing of their neighbor surprises me. You would think they would be happy that this man is now sane and whole. You would think they would throw a party to celebrate this miracle and bring others who need healing. But, there is none of that. Luke says they are afraid and ask Jesus to leave.
It seems like an odd response to those of us who aren’t afraid of Jesus. Why are they scared? But, think about it. Maybe they're afraid if Jesus stays around they won't be able to make a living. After all, Jesus has just sent someone’s hogs to death in the lake. Wed all know the power of Jesus extends to pocketbooks and we all know that how often causes trouble. But, the fear of these people may be more than the possibility of no longer having a way to make a living. If Jesus has power over the forces of the world that oppress and bind, if Jesus can heal somebody like this suffering man, while destroying a hog farm, what will he do next? They probably wondered, “Who is safe from this amazing power?” What if I like my life just the way it is and prefer living my life of sin? Would I be thrilled to see someone who will upset the apple cart and change it forever?
I was once talking to a man about church membership and giving his heart to Christ. He wanted to know about asking Jesus to be his Lord and Savior. He was very interested in the idea, that through his salvation in Christ he could spend eternity in heaven and not in hell. But, he wanted to know all that was required of a follower of Jesus, so he asked, “What about church, does the Lord expect me to be in church every Sunday, once I’m saved?” When I told him, “Yes, we should be in church, somewhere every Sunday,” he thought long and hard. But, he finally decided He could live with that. He then said, “I’ve heard I’m supposed to give ten percent of my earnings to the church.” I told him, “Yes,” and he said, “Man that’s a lot of money to just give away.” But, he finally decided he could live with that, too.
Some might say I made a mistake then. And, if I had it to do over again I might not have said what I did. He could have learned what is required of a person who is in Christ, later as he grew in his faith. He could have grown into all those things we are supposed to do as Christians. I don’t know why, but I then told him we also owe ten percent of our time to Jesus after we have accepted salvation in him. As a kid in confirmation reminded me long ago, “That’s two point four hours a day, sixteen point eight hours a week, and 6,132 hours a year!” I am sure he was doing the same calculations in his head when as he started shaking his head, “You know, I had better think about this,” and left, never coming back. I felt awful, but what I told him is the truth. We are supposed to give of our time to God. Now, there are many ways to do that…with church attendance and Bible studies, serving and helping others, but we are supposed to give BACK ten percent of the time God has given us.
The Gerasenes, felt it was just too much of a risk to have Jesus around, so they asked him to leave. We often fear something new in our lives too. We see it in churches and individuals that cling to the old ways of doing everything. Holding on to the old ways, even when it is clear that some of those old ministries are not producing fruit. If Jesus came to visit, we just might ask him to leave like the Gerasenes did. Because, he might want to shake things up a little. We might be afraid of what he would do to how we want to live our lives?
In fact we are already doing this, when we ignore chances for new ministries. When we see places and people in our society that are not in Christ and then ignore ways we can reach them, we are running from new ministries in Christ when we avoid or ignore opportunities to share the Good News of Jesus Christ with our neighbors and friends.
Years ago I took our two oldest girls to the MGM Grand Hotel in Reno, because they had the lion there and were taking pictures of people with him. It took some serious talking, especially with Cori, but we went up and stood beside him as they took our picture. But, as we got close to him we could see his eyes were cloudy, he could barely see. He opened his mouth once when we were close and we could see he barely had a tooth in his head. This was a walking dead, tame lion, not the scary thing we had imagined. Scaredy cat Cori, decided we should take him home and love him. He wasn’t a fearsome lion anymore, he was just a kind of sad, old kitty cat.
One of the ways we get Jesus to leave us alone with his demands on our time, our money, and our lifestyle is by trying to tame him. We make Jesus stop with his constant calls for ministry by turning him into someone who is only kind and gentle, never gets too upset, and who never threatens anyone. We try to make him boring and safe. But, no one ever accused Jesus Christ of being boring. Many of the people who met him thought he was too powerful and controversial to be safe. And, nowadays many of us try to think only of Jesus as the meek and mild, helpless little baby Jesus, not the all-powerful Lord God on earth. Many of us prefer the toothless and clawless lion of the MGM Grand to the real and powerful Jesus Christ. For, that Christ is a lot less scary than the Christ that cleared the Temple in anger. He’s less challenging than the Christ who faced all the powerful people fearlessly, while doing what He was sent to do on the cross.
Well, the weak and sweet Jesus many of us want will leave us unhealed and unchanged by our faith. Sure, it will protect our senses and our hearts from the awesome power of God and that’s exactly the Jesus many of us want. Many of us w Jesus who only comes around when we need some help or when we want to get dewy eyed over the manger. We want a Jesus who will protect us and not ask too much of us.
But, there are other reactions to Jesus and one of them is the man who was healed and it is the reaction we should all be showing. Jesus has given this man back his mind and his life. From a naked, tormented man who lived in the graveyard, he had been changed to one who sits at the feet of Jesus, clothed and in his right mind. This healed man is so grateful that he asks to go with Jesus back to Galilee. But, Jesus tells him, “No,” stay here and be a disciple in your hometown and he does what he was told, overflowing with the good news of what Jesus has done for him. Did you get that? He stayed in his hometown and witnessed to everyone about the life changing power and love of Jesus Christ He was changed in ways his neighbors could see by his faith in Jesus Christ. Just as we are to be changed by our faith in Him. If we fear the power of Jesus, if we are afraid of the possibility of a new and changed life in him, with all of its responsibilities I think this man would say to us, "I understand your fear, but don't send Jesus away so quickly. I wouldn't go back to who I was before Jesus came to me for anything. Let Jesus make the best of your life.”
Now, we never know when or where Jesus is going to turn up and call us to Christian ministry. But, if we aren’t feeling a call once in the while or we never have felt one, it is probably because we aren’t listening. He just might come to visit us with an offer of healing and new life. He will always call us to lead others to faith in him and if we are honest with ourselves, we know he has the power to do this. I pray we are all open and listening to what Jesus wants to do through us.
Rev. Bud Tuxhorn, Pastor
UMC Healy, Kansas